In the course of a relationship, there will, no
doubt, be times that your partner might feel a
spark of attraction for someone else. Of
course, the decision on whether or not to
take action on this lies with her.
Normally, she should be able to talk through
these feelings with you so you can both
figure out what is lacking in the relationship
that might cause her to be sexually attracted
to another man. But she might be too afraid
or too shy to do this.
doubt, be times that your partner might feel a
spark of attraction for someone else. Of
course, the decision on whether or not to
take action on this lies with her.
Normally, she should be able to talk through
these feelings with you so you can both
figure out what is lacking in the relationship
that might cause her to be sexually attracted
to another man. But she might be too afraid
or too shy to do this.
Look out for the signs below so you can
initiate a conversation with her fast. Before
things get out of hand.
1. She initiates sex more often: If your once
sexually-shy partner is suddenly into sex all
of a sudden, then be wary. Sure, you might
want to give in to the bliss of knowing you
do not have to cajole her for sex but a
sudden change like this usually means
something is up. If someone else has her
juices flowing all day, she will be so turned
on that she will want to let out her sexual
frustration by having sex with you. It is like
she is feeling the excitement of a new
relationship but she comes to you for the sex
part. Be sure to discuss this before she starts
going to him for the sex part too.
2. She keeps trying something new: Normally,
you choose the positions and she goes along.
But these days, she takes the lead and asks
for new things almost every single time you
both hit the sheets. If you ask for an
explanation, she evades you. This might be
because she is practicing for when she gets
on with her new guy.
3. She keeps her eyes/mouth closed: When a
woman is using you for sex but wishing she
was with someone else, she would want to
keep her eyes closed so she can focus on
imagining she was with the other guy.
Looking at you will ruin this. She might also
bite her lips or keep her mouth shut because
she is afraid to say the wrong thing (or
name).
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4. She works towards looking/dressing
different: You have never said anything about
her weight or style, but you start to notice
she is suddenly trying to get fitter or dress
different. If you ask her and she is innocent,
she will give you a legitimate reason you can
understand such as wanting to be healthier
or look better for you. But when you ask and
she dodges your question or acts like she is
hiding something, she probably is. She might
be working so hard to look good to get
another man’s attention.
5. She mentions him: more than a few times:
If you are someone she considers to be a
close friend, then she is very likely to have
mentioned this guy at some point. When a
woman is excited about someone, she cannot
simply keep him to herself. Sure, she would
not talk about him in a romantic way, but
she will bring him up in other ways. She
might mention a joke he shared, or
something funny he did. The point is, when a
new guy keeps coming up in your
conversations at random times, then you
should keep an eye out.
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